Pamela Anderson wishes she had a “better relationship” with Tommy Lee

Pamela Anderson, Tommy Lee.
Getty Images (2)Pamela Anderson wants to have a better relationship with her ex-husband Tommy Lee.
The actress and model appeared on SiriusXM’s Andy Cohen Live on Thursday, January 9, where she opened up about her relationship with Lee, to whom she was married from 1995 to 1998.
“I mean, we used to talk a lot more,” Anderson, 57, said. “Unfortunately, not recently, but you know, I would like us to have a better relationship now.”
Anderson and Lee have two sons, Brandon Thomas, 28, and Dylan Jagger, 27. She added that with Dylan now engaged, she hopes their relationship will be better.

“My youngest son is engaged and we are going to have grandchildren together,” she said. “Everything will be fine in the end. Now it’s just a moment.”
Anderson, 62, and Lee began dating in December 1995 and married just four days later in Cancun, Mexico. When they returned to the United States, Anderson moved in with Lee, whose house was being renovated at the time. A fired electrician stole a sex tape of the two, leading to a $10 million lawsuit to try to stop its distribution. Lee admitted that the infamous ordeal soured their relationship.
“Not being able to do anything … about (the tape) added so much frustration and stress to our relationship,” he said in a 2014 episode 20/20. “It just consumed us.”
In 1998, Lee was arrested for a felony and sentenced to six months in prison when Anderson filed for divorce. She called her divorce “the hardest, lowest, hardest moment of my life.” in her 2023 memoir, With love, Pamela.
Anderson and Lee briefly reunited after Lee’s release, but the relationship did not last.
at that time Anderson was married four additional times. She and Kid Rock they got married in 2006, and divorced a year later. She was then married to a professional poker player Rick Solomon twice, from 2007 to 2008 when their marriage was dissolved, then from 2014 to 2015. Anderson married her bodyguard Dan Hayhurst in 2020, and they divorced in 2022.
As for Lee, the Mötley Crüe drummer is married to an actress Brittany Furlan in 2019.
Anderson went on to explain her feelings for Lee in her memoir, writing about the importance of him being a single parent.
“Tommy is the father of my children and I am forever grateful,” she wrote. “My relationship with Tommy may have been the only time I’ve ever been in love.”