Jessica Alba said being married to Cash Warren is like being roommates

Jessica Alba and Cash Warren
(Photo by Michael Tran/AFP via Getty Images)A few months before she announced her separation from her husband Cash Warren, Jessica Alba said she and Warren “became roommates.”
43-year-old Alba talked about her marriage in a honest conversation with a podcaster Katherine Schwarzenegger Pratt in April 2024.
“Everything is rosy for 2 1/2 years, but after that you become roommates,” Alba said on Schwarzenegger’s “BDA Baby” podcast. “And it’s just like, you’re roommates. You’re just going through the motions. It is a responsibility. It’s a lot of, like, checking boxes.’
TMZ reported on Wednesday, January 8 that Alba and Warren, 45, recently split and preparing to file for divorce. Us Weekly contacted their representatives for comment.
Couple met on the set Fantastic four in 2004, where Alba was the lead girl and Warren was a production assistant. They tied the knot four years later.
During their vows in 2008, Alba was nine months pregnant with their daughter Honor, now 16. The couple went on to welcome daughter Haven, 13, and son Hayes, 6.
When Schwarzenegger Pratt, 35, asked how Alba was able to find balance among her demanding responsibilities — and make sure “your husband feels taken care of” — Alba winced.
“If you figure it out in your relationship, let me know,” she quipped, adding, “You know, I think (Warren) is probably getting the short end of the stick. … It’s hard. It’s impossible.”
Alba said she and Warren had previously tried to schedule regular dates where “we wouldn’t have a phone and we’d just talk. But then it stopped because of something – and so we’re just not consistent.”
She advised Schwarzenegger Pratt’s listeners that it’s important to “communicate when you’re unhappy and stop it right away, instead of letting it kind of fester and then you have animosity and it explodes.”
Alba also noted that she and Warren have “been through it” since they’ve been together for so long, and joked that “he basically stole my 20s and 30s.”
“We obviously have a friendship, a comfort, like, ‘you’re not going anywhere,'” she added. “And so sometimes you don’t treat these people in the best way, right? You don’t consider their feelings the way you would other people’s feelings. So that’s what I think is a constant — a constant that needs to be worked on.”
She said married couples should avoid discussing topics such as children’s schedules during time together.
“That date or that time when you really shouldn’t talk about the annoying things you’ve been talking about all week anyway. It’s time, as it were, to bypass it and sign up in a different way. But it is difficult. It’s really hard.”